I remember seeing this pretty great Christmas card. A family of four, all festively coordinated in their best holiday red shirts, sitting on their couch, next to their lit Christmas tree. All staring down into their iPhones, iPads, iSomethings. You can’t see their faces, but the dad in the picture is holding up his one finger, (the pointer) in a gesture of “wait one sec…”
I chuckled and said to myself, “that won’t be us.”
And it wasn’t. Because we were not keeping up with the Joneses at all. We had one lap top, one television and the wii. That was it. I have, and still do, a crappy phone, with no data plan and 200 texts per month. (And I am almost there, so call me if you need me, kay?) My husband has his work laptop and his Blackberry. We were bare bones.
And, according to an article in Woman’s Day in October, really behind the times.
Panic set in as I showed the article to my husband.
The kids will lag in school! Their friends will make fun of them! They’ll be shunned from society! WE NEED TO UPGRADE NOW!
After I calmed down, we decided that it really was time to bite the bullet and get caught up with the rest of the world. At least partially.
So I did some research and we decided that Christmas would be a good time to introduce some technology upgrades to our household. I went to the ATT store and looked at all the new fangled phones that you could actually text on without sliding up half the phone to reveal the keyboard. Wow! (But there were too many choices. I got scared. So I still have my old phone.)
We did, however, decide to purchase an iTouch for our 10-year-old son. It had been on his Christmas list for the last three years. Though oddly, he hadn’t mentioned it at ALL this year. I mean at all. (Though given he was in a phase, a World War II phase that meant EVERYTHING on his list had to do with outfitting him to be a reenactor of sorts.)
So I looked and found last generation’s model, which by the way I just don’t get. Even when you are trying to upgrade, you are still behind the times with Apple. The cool people have the new one. The uncool people have last generation. What evs. The iTouch 4 was cheaper and I am nothing if not cheap.
I also decided to get an iPad for the “family.” Although granted it was high on the list of my 7-year-old daughter’s wants from Santa, it would be for the family. I was certainly not going to get my daughter a piece of technology like an iPad solely because she wants it. I mean, we are behind the times, but going from 0 to 60 for a 7-year-old was out of the question. Right? Right?
I settled on an iPad (again, last generation – am I a glutton for punishment?) from Wal-Mart. I think I got a good price, certainly the best one I could find.
And boom! We are in the 21st century. Or sort of.
When I found out about my upcoming surgery, I figured an iPad would be just the ticket for me while I lay in bed recovering. So, since I was going to be monopolizing the iPad, I decided to get my husband a Kindle Fire. (Yeah, yeah, I know. I did actually blog that I would never get a Kindle. I meant for myself. I swear.)
Anyway, so I went to Staples, got the Kindle Fire HD and I swallowed hard.
We just bit the bullet.
So in the month of December, we tried to fish around with the kids about technology. My daughter was still firm on the iPad. But my son said he did not want an iTouch. At all. Great. Just great.
Anyway, fast forward to Christmas morning and everyone was thrilled with the new electronics under the tree. Even my son, who jumped for joy with his iTouch.
Over Christmas break, I walked into the living room where my family was. The cat and dog were in front of the blazing fire, the Christmas tree lights twinkled and the boughs of holly that hung gleamed bright over my window panes.
And there was silence.
My daughter, with her new pink headphones, was plugged into the iPad playing Temple Run. My son had his head buried in his iTouch playing some army game and my husband was fiddling with his new Kindle Fire HD.
They didn’t even know I was there. At all.
Guys? Guys? Family?
So I shouted, “Isn’t this bliss!” And got a chuckle or two, but no one raised their eyes from their iThings.
Okay then. We are now that family on the Christmas card.
I realize things are new, and I hope that the desire to be on the damn things constantly will dwindle.
It will dwindle, right? We won’t be that family that grunts answers to each other because we all have our heads buried in some screen will we?
I think I miss being blissfully under the technology bar.
Well, at least I have an idea for next year’s Christmas card.
Happy Screen Time.